Saturday

Hi

Does anyone know where the bois will be on Saturday, or will we get an email?

Cheers m'dears

Hi.
Would luv to know where or if the boys are going to be sat!! Any ideas??

As of yet nothing has been confirmed.

It could be that Simon will perform in Croydon to promote the Fairfield, but again, that hasn't been confirmed.

As soon as I know anything I shall keep y'all posted!

Thanks for getting back to ME, Tracy

although I'd already worked that out

Thanks my luv!!

Why would Si be on his own? has Tyber gone away?

Chirasin wrote:

Thanks for getting back to ME, Tracy

although I'd already worked that out

Chirasin, Red was simply updating everyone on the forum. There is no need for sarcasm.


Thanks

sarcasm??, where?

and the answer to my question is................, where?

I ONLY WANT TO LOOK AT THE DUALERS WEB SITE TO SEE WHERE THE BOYS WILL BE PERFORMING ON SATURDAYS. I THINK CHIRASIN AND RED SHOULD HAVE THERE OWN PRIVATE FORUM TO SORT OUT THEIR DIFFERANCES SO THE REST OF THE DUALERS FANS DONT HAVE TO KEEP READING CHIRASIN LITTLE DIGS

7890zelda wrote:

I ONLY WANT TO LOOK AT THE DUALERS WEB SITE TO SEE WHERE THE BOYS WILL BE PERFORMING ON SATURDAYS. I THINK CHIRASIN AND RED SHOULD HAVE THERE OWN PRIVATE FORUM TO SORT OUT THEIR DIFFERANCES SO THE REST OF THE DUALERS FANS DONT HAVE TO KEEP READING CHIRASIN LITTLE DIGS

7890zelda, Please let the moderators do the moderating. If you have any complaints about forum members or comments posted then please let me know by PM.

Thanks

7890zelda wrote:

I ONLY WANT TO LOOK AT THE DUALERS WEB SITE TO SEE WHERE THE BOYS WILL BE PERFORMING ON SATURDAYS. I THINK CHIRASIN AND RED SHOULD HAVE THERE OWN PRIVATE FORUM TO SORT OUT THEIR DIFFERANCES SO THE REST OF THE DUALERS FANS DONT HAVE TO KEEP READING CHIRASIN LITTLE DIGS

yes thanks for that 7890zelda, i have tried that, but Tracy doesn't reply

Zelda only expressed an opinion, albeit from soggy Romford, which really shouldn't need any 'moderating'!

cliver wrote:

Zelda only expressed an opinion, albeit from soggy Romford, which really shouldn't need any 'moderating'!

I wasn't saying Zelda's opinion needed 'moderating'. Furthermore I will moderate posts and comments as I see fit.

BlueAardvark wrote:

Furthermore I will moderate posts and comments as I see fit.

Does that include ignoring legitimate questions from a legitimate, long standing Dualer Fan?

You do that BA.

This USED to be a friendly gathering of folk with a communal following of the Dualers.

Now the right of free speech appears to be under threat - tsk tsk

Chirasin wrote:

BlueAardvark wrote:

Furthermore I will moderate posts and comments as I see fit.

Does that include ignoring legitimate questions from a legitimate, long standing Dualer Fan?

In the time I've been here you have asked numerous questions. Some I have answered and some I've chosen not to answer. If you don't get a response then assume I either don't have the answer or don't wish to reply.

cliver wrote:

You do that BA.

This USED to be a friendly gathering of folk with a communal following of the Dualers.

Now the right of free speech appears to be under threat - tsk tsk

In the last 5 days two members have complained about the content of certain members posts. That is why I've stepped in and said what I have. If everyone keeps it friendly, I'll have no reason to get involved.

BlueAardvark wrote:

]In the time I've been here you have asked numerous questions. Some I have answered and some I've chosen not to answer. If you don't get a response then assume I either don't have the answer or don't wish to reply.

it is, surely, common courtesy to respond to questionss (being admin and/or moderator) whether you know the answer or not, that is all part of keeping 'everyone' happy.

simply 'don't wish to reply', is, imo, not ethical and only gives people the impression of ignorance and/or bad manners.

If all your questions were in the best interest of 'everyone' then I probably would reply, but they haven't been. The other reason is stop the thread from going off topic.

I really don't think ethics comes in to it.

BlueAardvark wrote:

If all your questions were in the best interest of 'everyone' then I probably would reply, but they haven't been.

it is blatently obvious that when a question is ignored, and, that same question is asked again, by someone else, and answered, it is called racist (ie being singled out).

If that racism was stopped then there would not be any need for people to complain

7890zelda wrote:

I ONLY WANT TO LOOK AT THE DUALERS WEB SITE TO SEE WHERE THE BOYS WILL BE PERFORMING ON SATURDAYS. I THINK CHIRASIN AND RED SHOULD HAVE THERE OWN PRIVATE FORUM TO SORT OUT THEIR DIFFERANCES

I could not agree more, but, when I have repeatedly asked Tracy (in private) why she is behaving the way that she is, I have not received an answer, which is, again, racism, especially as I have done nothing wrong to turn her against me, in the first place.

She was exactly the same on the old forum, totally ignoring people she didn't like, therefore causing friction with those members, and, eventually pushing people away from the forum, because of her rudenss, and, in some cases, away from The Dualers, and then she would complain about people not posting on the forum.

It is also interesting to see that the archives are no longer being deleted

BlueAardvark wrote:

I really don't think ethics comes in to it.

BlueAardvark wrote:

Chirasin, Red was simply updating everyone on the forum. There is no need for sarcasm.Thanks

This kind of remark only brings out the 'friction' more and causes 'upset' amongst other fans.

Can you advise why this question was ignored for two days, and was only answered because another fan asked it?

Chirasin wrote:

Hi

Does anyone know where the bois will be on Saturday, or will we get an email?

Cheers m'dears

imo, the above question was/is 'in the best interest of 'everyone'........

Chirasin this really is tiring. Nobody is being 'racist' as you put it towards you. The news was announced to everyone as soon as it was known. The update on the gig was not in reply to the other member who asked the same question as you, again it was announced to everyone.

Whatever personal disputes you have should be taken to PM and not posted here. It is exactly that kind of thing that is off putting to other forum members. If you don't get a reply then you need to accept it and not complain in the forums.

I am not going to debate it further with you in this thread or any other thread. If you persist, I will ban you from the forum.

The definition of racism:

- the prejudice that members of one race are intrinsically superior to members of other races
- discriminatory or abusive behavior towards members of another race

The last time I checked, we were both of the same race...

Just because one person does not wish to engage in petty conversation/arguments with another, does not constitute racism. It is these outlandish and annoying accusations/comments that cause people to not want to be associated with certain people.

As well as that, we are trying to do the best by everyone else on the forum, by not indulging this ludicrous behaviour, and gracing it with a response. It is putting other members off posting.

This is not a school playground, please start acting like an adult.